We understand how challenging and emotional it can be when your child displays biting behavior. Please know that you are not alone - biting is a natural part of early childhood development for many children. It can happen for a variety of reasons, from exploring their surroundings to expressing emotions that are difficult to put into words.
At Leyland St James' Nursery, we are here to support you and your child every step of the way. Together, we can create a positive, nurturing environment where your little one can thrive.
Why Do Children Bite?
Young children may bite for several reasons:
- Teething Discomfort: Biting can help soothe sore gums.
- Exploring the World: Children may bite to discover cause and effect.
- Expressing Emotions: Without the words to say they’re upset, tired, or scared, biting can become their way of communicating.
- Seeking Attention: Sometimes, biting is an attempt to gain attention or feel in control.
These behaviours, while frustrating, are normal and temporary. With understanding and guidance, they can be managed effectively.
Our Nursery’s Approach
We are committed to helping every child develop in a safe and supportive way. Here’s how we address biting at nursery:
- Comfort and Care for All Children: If a child is hurt, we respond immediately to provide comfort and care.
- Setting Clear Boundaries: Children are reminded firmly but kindly that biting is not okay - “Biting hurts, and we do not bite.”
- Teaching Alternatives: We help children learn other ways to communicate their needs or handle strong emotions. For instance, we model simple phrases like “I’m upset” or “I need help.”
- Providing Safe Outlets: For children who bite due to teething or sensory needs, we offer items like teething rings or cold washcloths.
How You Can Help at Home
Your role as parents is invaluable. Here are some ways you can support your child:
- Keep Routines Predictable: Children feel secure when their day follows a familiar pattern.
- Offer Safe Alternatives for Biting: Provide items like teething rings or snacks with different textures to meet their sensory needs.
- Model Positive Behavior: Encourage your child to use words or gestures to express feelings. Celebrate moments when they communicate appropriately.
- Stay Calm and Patient: We know it’s hard, but staying calm reassures your child that you’re there to guide and support them.
When Biting Becomes a Habit
If biting happens regularly, it’s a sign we may need to look deeper. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. Working together, we can:
- Identify patterns or triggers for biting.
- Create a consistent plan to help your child learn alternative behaviours.
- Monitor progress and adapt strategies to your child’s unique needs.
Changing habits takes time, and that’s okay. Patience, consistency, and understanding make all the difference.
We’re Here for You
We know how deeply you care about your child’s well-being, and we want you to feel supported and heard. If you have questions or would like to discuss your child’s behavior, please feel free to talk to your family key worker. Together, we can help your child navigate this stage and grow into their best selves.
Warm regards, The Leyland St James Nursery Team
